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Chapter 13 - Mom Could Not Understand a Boundary She Did Not Control

Mom refused therapy.

Then agreed.

Then quit after two sessions because:

“The therapist takes Sarah’s side.”

Dad separated from her for three months.

He eventually returned.

Their marriage was their problem.

My relationship with Mom became mine.

She wrote:

I DID EVERYTHING FOR THIS FAMILY.

I answered once:

That does not give you ownership of everyone inside it.

She did not understand.

Maybe someday she would.

Maybe not.

Dad apologized differently.

“I knew enough to stop it.”

“Yes.”

“I didn’t.”

“No.”

“I’m sorry.”

I believed him.

We rebuilt slowly.

He did not get unsupervised access to Lily immediately because apologies do not erase judgment failures.

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He accepted that.

That mattered.

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