Chapter 8 - The Petition Nobody Could Take Back

The guardianship petition went in the next morning.
Naomi warned me there was no gentle way to do it. Once filed, it would trigger evaluations, interviews, subpoenas, and a fight over whether my mother could still make some decisions for herself. It was the only path that protected her finances quickly, and it was also a public declaration that my brother could not be trusted with his own mother.
I signed anyway.
By afternoon, the probate judge had frozen the remaining accounts and appointed a temporary fiduciary to review the transactions. That was the personally costly part I hadn’t expected. Mom cried when she heard the words temporary conservator.
“I don’t want strangers running my money,” she said.
“I know,” I told her. “I’d rather have a stranger for thirty days than Julian for one more.”
Julian reacted exactly the way people do when fear finally outweighs bluster.
He didn’t call me. He called my office, left three messages with my assistant, and then sent a text that read: You’re humiliating all of us over paperwork you don’t understand.
Chloe sent one ten minutes later: Ask your mother what she told us after your father died. Ask her who she chose.
I read that line five times.
Naomi told me not to answer either of them.
Instead, I visited my mother at the rehab wing where the hospital had placed her for observation and sat with her while she ate tomato soup and crackers off a beige tray.
“Did you choose them over me?” I asked finally.
She set down her spoon. “I thought I was sparing you.”
“From what?”
May you like
Her eyes went to the window, and I knew before she said it that my understanding of this whole year was about to change.
“From me needing you.”