Chapter 9 - I STOPPED CALLING IT FAVORITISM
I went to therapy for the first time at twenty.
Robert had suggested it before.
I refused because the idea sounded like my parents had broken me.
My therapist, Dr. Nina Patel, corrected that immediately.
"Therapy is not a verdict."
I disliked her.
Which usually meant she was useful.
On the third session, she asked:
"What do you call what happened?"
"Favoritism."
"Is that precise?"
"No."
"What is?"
I thought about Mom's email.
"They sacrificed me."
The word stayed in the room.
"That feels more precise?"
"Yes."
"Why?"
"Because they knew."
I told her everything.
Ethan.
The claim.
The timestamp.
Dad's driving lessons.
Mom's midnight email.
Robert keeping it.
When I finished, she said:
"You have three separate injuries."
"Great."
"Your brother lied."
"Yes."
"Your parents knowingly maintained the lie."
"Yes."
"Your uncle withheld evidence from you later."
"Yes."
"Are those equal?"
"No."
"Good."
I looked at her.
"Why good?"
"Because pain often makes people flatten differences."
That became important.
Robert had withheld truth because he feared hurting me.
Wrong.
My parents withheld truth because telling it threatened themselves and Ethan.
Also wrong.
Not equal.
Ethan had lied at thirteen in panic.
Then protected himself for seven years.
Both needed accounting.
Not identical accounting.
Ethan called after a month.
"I wrote something."
"What?"
"The whole thing."
"For who?"
"You."
"Why?"
"So you don't have to depend on Mom's email."
I almost laughed.
"You think I depend on that?"
"No."
He corrected himself.
"That sounded stupid."
"Yes."
He continued.
"I want my name on the truth."
That was better.
He sent a four-page statement.
No lawyer.
No notary.
Just Ethan.
I drove the BMW.
Daniel was upstairs.
I blamed him.
I confessed to Mom that night.
Dad knew before Daniel left.
Dad told me never to change the story.
Then Ethan wrote something I had not known.
The next morning, Dad made him repeat the original lie to Grandpa.
Why?
Because Grandpa had already heard about the crash.
Dad told him:
Daniel's always had a resentment problem.
I stared.
The family narrative had been expanded deliberately.
My character became insurance around Ethan's lie.
Ethan continued.
I let Dad do it because the consequences landed on Daniel instead of me.
I am not asking Daniel to forgive me.
I am writing this because he has had to carry my version for twelve years.
That line stopped me.
Twelve years?
I checked the date.
Ethan had written it years later, after we were older.
The statement would eventually matter.
At twenty, it was still future.
But the first version he sent ended:
I don't know how to fix it.
I replied:
YOU DON'T.
Then after ten minutes:
BUT YOU CAN STOP LYING.
Ethan did.
Slowly.
He told Megan.
Our grandparents.
Two aunts.
His college counselor.
When Dad found out, he called me for the first time in nearly three years.
"You are destroying your brother."
I laughed.
"Hello, Dad."
"This is not funny."
"No."
"Ethan is in a fragile place."
"He told the truth."
"Because you pressured him."
"I didn't."
"You have always known how to punish people by acting morally superior."
That one landed.
Because part of me did enjoy having proof.
Dr. Patel later made me admit it.
But truth and self-righteousness could coexist without making the truth false.
I said:
"Did you know I wasn't driving?"
Silence.
"Dad."
"We've been through this."
"No. You have."
Another silence.
"Did you know?"
He ended the call.
Mom called ten minutes later.
"Please don't do this."
"Do what?"
"Make Ethan relive everything."
I almost laughed.
"I've relived it since I was thirteen."
"I know."
"Then why is his discomfort suddenly the emergency?"
She cried.
I hated that crying still made me want to comfort her.
"Mom."
"I made mistakes."
"What mistakes?"
"I should've stopped your father."
"What did you do instead?"
Silence.
"I went along."
"Say it."
"I went along."
"Why?"
She whispered:
"I was afraid."
"Of Dad?"
"Of everything falling apart."
I closed my eyes.
"It did."
"I know."
"No."
I looked at the photograph on my desk.
Robert and me at my high-school graduation.
"You kept the house."
Mom said nothing.
"You kept the marriage."
Nothing.
"Ethan kept football."
She started crying harder.
"You all kept exactly what you were afraid of losing."
My voice broke.
"I was the thing you let fall apart."
She whispered:
"I'm sorry."
It was the first apology without but.
I did not forgive her.
I did not hang up either.
That was new.
Then she said:
"There's something you still don't understand about your father."
My stomach tightened.
"What?"
"He didn't only think Ethan had more to lose."
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"What else?"
"He thought you were easier to lose."
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